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Self-emancipation, self-realisation


By anand - Posted on 03 August 2008

We are so racially sensitive that once “outsiders” or “others” criticise our race, tribal leaders immediately train their snipers at the messenger, in an effort to obfuscate the message.

It, therefore, falls upon someone from within the flock to rise to the occasion and say what needs to be said. This is the only route to self-realisation and self-emancipation.

Barack Obama and comedian Bill Cosby are the most recent examples of hard-talking, frontline black leaders.

I wish to remind readers of Cosby’s historic May, 2004, speech on the 50th anniversary of the landmark racial discrimination decision of the Supreme Court, in the case of Brown v Board of Education. Here goes:

Cosby’s comments:

Ladies and gentlemen, these people set; they opened the doors; they gave us the right, and today, in our cities and public schools we have 50 per cent drop out.

In our own neighbourhood, we have men in prison. No longer is a person embarrassed because they’re pregnant without a husband. No longer is a boy considered an embarrassment if he tries to run away from being the father of the unmarried child.

The lower economic and lower middle economic people are not holding their end in this deal…I’m talking about these people who cry when their son is standing there in an orange suit.

Where were you when he was two?

Where were you when he was 12?

Where were you when he was 18, and how come you don’t know he had a pistol?

And where is his father, and why don’t you know where he is? And why doesn’t the father show up to talk to this boy?

We cannot blame white people. White people don’t live over there. They close up the shop early. The Korean ones still don’t know us as well…They stay open 24 hours.

I’m telling you, and people in jail, and women having children by five, six different men. Under what excuse, I want somebody to love me, and as soon as you have it, you forget to parent. Grandmother, mother, and great-grandmother in the same room, raising children, and the child knows nothing about love or respect of any one of the three of them.

All this child knows is ‘gimme, gimme, gimme.’ These people want to buy the friendship of a child….and the child couldn’t care less. Those of us sitting out here who have gone on to some college or whatever we’ve done, we still fear our parents.

And these people are not parenting. They’re buying things for the kid; $500 sneakers, for what? They won’t buy or spend $250 on Hooked on Phonics.

Are you not paying attention, people with their hat on backwards, pants down around the crack. Isn’t that a sign of something, or are you waiting for Jesus to pull his pants up.

Isn’t it a sign of something when she’s got her dress all the way up to the crack…and got all kinds of needles and things going through her body.

What part of Africa did this come from? We are not Africans. Those people are not Africans; they don’t know a damned thing about Africa.

With names like Shaniqua, Shaligua, Mohammed and all that crap and all of them are in jail.

(When we give these kinds names to our children, we give them the strength and inspiration in the meaning of those names. What’s the point of giving them strong names if there are not parenting and values backing it up)?"

Start parenting

I can’t even talk the way these people talk. ‘Why you ain’t where you is go, ra,’ I don’t know who these people are. And I blamed the kid until I heard the mother talk. Then I heard the father talk. This is all in the house.

You used to talk a certain way on the corner, and you got into the house and switched to English. Everybody knows it’s important to speak English except these knuckleheads.

You can’t land a plane with ‘why you ain’t… ’You can’t be a doctor with that kind of crap coming out of your mouth. There is no Bible that has that kind of language. Where did these people get the idea that they’re moving ahead on this?

I just want to get you as angry that you ought to be. When you walk around the neighbourhood and you see this stuff, that stuff’s not funny.

These people are not funny any more. And that’s not my brother. And that’s not my sister. They’re faking and they’re dragging me way down because the State, the city and all these people have to pick up the tab on them because they don’t want to accept that they have to study to get an education.

When you go to the church, look at the stained glass things of Jesus. Look at them. Is Jesus smiling? Not in one picture.

So, tell your friends. Let’s try to do something. Let’s try to make Jesus smile.

Let’s start parenting.

Thank you.

 

By Anand Ramlogan

 

Site Admin Note:

The full text of Bill Cosby's speech is available at: (click) American Rhetoric

By an amazing co-incidence Anand's Commentary bears much similarity to Jumbie's Blog on Bill Cosby Speaks. Well, the moral of the story is that great minds think alike. Unfortunately the same is true of small minds.

I take issue with Cosby's lines:

" Isn’t it a sign of something when she’s got her dress all the way up to the crack…and got all kinds of needles and things going through her body.  

What part of Africa did this come from? We are not Africans. Those people are not Africans; they don’t know a damned thing about Africa.

With names like Shaniqua, Shaligua, Mohammed and all that crap and all of them are in jail."

Eh heh? Yeah. Why? Well read carefully what I said here: Different Shades of Black. Well if I was wrong then, I must still be wrong now. Bill Cosby's opinion should make no difference to what I had said there.

And I echo Bill Cosby's remarks, mockingly to those in T&T who t'ink dey 'is Indian' - and who forever searching for dee modda land (i.e. The Mother Land - eef yuh American accented on a banana island somewhere). "..We are not Indians. Those people are not Indians; they don’t know a damned thing about India." 

And who doh like it - tough.

My point is - that Trinbagonians are as confused as the people Cosby refers to. The sooner they grow up into mature independent 'identities' the better for them. Instead they behave like abused lost children, fighting among themselves; inappropriately attached to archetypal representations of authority; discriminating against each other behind closed doors (and sometimes beyond); hunting for belonging to some bigger picture; assimilating other cultures as easily as a change of wind direction.

The 'start parenting' bandwagon is over-rated. In reality, parenting skills are learnt from leaders and 'good parents' (whatever that means). However, with each passing generation parenting skills are likely to be diluted - and eroded by increasingly 'paternalistic' and intrustive legislation. Now in England for example, you have to be real careful not to give you child a smack on dee backside in public. Look, long time you could buss two tap on yuh cheil (aka child) when dey playin' dee ass - now you dare not - else you risk social services knocking on your door.

Cosby's statements are 'good stuff' in that they are inspirational. However, the world is not as simple as he makes it out to be. And we should not be carried away by 'myths' of a kind e.g. 'Well...leh we do some good parenting..and dat go improve t'ings". Yes, good parenting helps - I have no argument with that. To what extent is another debate in itself. But at a social/societal level it is too simplistic for our complex systems of law, government, regulatory systems, education, crime prevention, etc etc.  

 

Aye Capitan, don't fail to see the woods for the trees. You pulling a Shermie/Volney here.

This issue isn't about the African/Indian aspect as much as it is about the attitude of a newer generation who are seeking to be something they are not; and grasping at a lifestyle that contributes nothing positive to society or even themselves. Cosby, Anand and myself all mentioned Indian/African simply because it clearly identifies the groups we refer to, your arguments notwithstanding. You may be correct, but in the eyes of the general population, we can clearly be understood as everyone knows immediately of what we speak. Is like how one time all disposable diapers were called 'Pampers' and all toothpaste was 'Colgate', nah.

In my blog post, 'Affirmative action? Why?' I clearly identified the preferential treatment one group is given over the other, despite being the bane of society. Now I see Pa-trick wants to sponsor people up to PhD level. I wonder why we are not told of the recipients of these scholarships? I bet that if an investigation is done, it's only one ethnic group benefitting, and so glaringly that this is the reason the Government is stopping any transparency. Well, maybe it's cronyism too, and it's friends and family of PNM members...

I for one am pleased that Cosby has put to words what a majority of people think, even people from within that ethnic group. Sometimes the shock value of coming from within might do the job; kinda like your father telling you a few home truths about yourself so you pull and and think. In this case, it didn't work - the entrenchment of that urban culture has already taken them past the point of return.

What we do now is cope as best as we could, and hope. I admit I don't have a solution, but that doesn't mean I have to agree or live with the situation; I can protest, and do my little bit for change.

 

Okay Jumbie, I beg to differ. The point I am making is that the total identity confusion is what has these people 'lost' - a lost tribe - clutching at mere remnants of a heritage. And from that flows a heightened desire to see themselves stupidly as 'Indian' or 'African'. But in the face of that they are vulnerable to cultural confusion i.e. some see themselves as 'black american' and dey go about talkin' with quasi-American accents.

If you were on the north coast of Jamaica in the 1980's - as I was - I feel you would be able to better see my perspective. The Jamaicans on the north coast tourist areas also suffered an identity confusion - they spoke in ways similar to the pseudo-american-Trini that I hear these days - I mean actually hear, these days from - yeah - 5000 miles away. And hol' on - I never heard with such high frequency this quasi-American accent prior to 1990. In fact eef you come talkin' in ah American accent back den, well boy is picong fuh yuh - or people gorn in a back room somewhey and laughin' at yuh. But deese days, well boy yuh in dee crowd - yuh know wha' ah mean.

"...but in the eyes of the general population, we can clearly be understood as everyone knows immediately of what we speak." Yeah - and my grandparents and their racist friends new what they meant by "niger". Dey understood each other perfectly. They knew they weren't racist. In fact I have reason to think that the word (racist) was not in their vocabulary. There are none so blind...

I postulate that the terms 'Indian' and 'African' - as used in T&T are representative of  a grand delusion. I start with me. I was an 'Indian' pre-1990 - deluded about it as I was. I am no longer an 'Indian'. I now feel insulted to be referred to as 'Indian'. But when one shares a delusion with others it is a lovely secure feeling - the herd instinct takes over.

There is also delusional hypocrisy operating amongst Trinbagonians. Dey go on about 'one love', 'one people' and all dat kind of rubbish. Yeah, it is rubbish because in reality they are a people divided - very divided. You could put the jigsaw puzzle togther but the cracks will remain between the pieces. In T&T there are very big cracks between the pieces.

"I admit I don't have a solution, but that doesn't mean I have to agree or live with the situation; I can protest, and do my little bit for change." Why boy? Because you love dee modda country (aka mother country). T&T is dead! Dead like a dead dog! The dog has been convulsing for the last 6 years or so, about to dead (i.e. die if yuh prim and proper wid yuh english) - and after dee last elecshan (aka election) it dead good and proper. Yuh could pray over a dead dog how much yuh want...do yuh li'le bit how much yuh want...dee dog will not be resurrected. Sorry to poor cold water on your hopes of sea, sun and sandy beaches, sipping rum and coconut water (or whatever you fancy) - game over boy! As the harbinger of doom and gloom, I expect fierce resistance from dee diehard trini faction.

Watch dee murder rate! Watch dee rise of sex, drugs and violent crime! Any resemblance to sick American cities where people are confused?

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